Support
Answers to common questions, and how to reach us.
Contact us
- Help with your account or the app: support@trulyflirt.com
- Privacy and data requests: privacy@trulyflirt.com
- Grievances (including India's DPDP Act): grievance@trulyflirt.com
If you are in danger or someone threatens you, contact your local emergency number first. To report a member, use the report option in ChatGPT, or email us with their display name.
Frequently asked questions
What is TrulyFlirt?
TrulyFlirt helps adults find a dating partner inside ChatGPT. You set up your profile on trulyflirt.com, then ask ChatGPT for match suggestions, like or pass on profiles, chat with mutual matches and get first-date safety tips.
Who can use TrulyFlirt?
Adults aged 18 or over only. You confirm your age with your birth date during onboarding. TrulyFlirt is currently in private beta.
How do I add TrulyFlirt in ChatGPT?
TrulyFlirt is not yet listed in the ChatGPT plugin directory, so you add it yourself. Open https://chatgpt.com/plugins, select "+", then "Add custom MCP server". Enter https://trulyflirt.com/mcp as the server URL, choose OAuth as the authentication method, confirm the warning and select "Create as a plugin". Then start a new chat, type "@" and pick TrulyFlirt. When ChatGPT asks you to connect your account, sign in on trulyflirt.com and select Allow. Adding custom MCP servers may not be available on every ChatGPT plan or workspace.
How do I sign in?
Enter your email address on trulyflirt.com and we send you an 8-digit code, which works for 10 minutes. You can also continue with Google where that option is shown. We use codes instead of email links because links break ChatGPT's sign-in window.
Why do I have to finish onboarding on the website?
Your birth date, gender, the genders you want to meet and your location are personal and, in some countries, legally sensitive. We collect them only on https://trulyflirt.com/onboarding, after explaining how they are used and asking for your consent, and never in chat. Until you finish onboarding, TrulyFlirt in ChatGPT shows you the onboarding link instead of matches.
Who can see my profile?
Members whose stated preferences match yours both ways can see your display name, age, city, bio, interests, prompt answers and relationship goal. Nobody else sees your email, birth date, gender, the genders you want to meet or your exact location.
Does OpenAI see my data?
When you or another member uses TrulyFlirt in ChatGPT, the results of TrulyFlirt tools, such as profiles and messages, are sent to ChatGPT so it can answer. OpenAI handles that data under its own privacy policy. We ask for your consent to this during onboarding. See our privacy policy for details.
Why are some profiles labeled "Demo"?
During the private beta, the profiles you can browse are fictional demo profiles. Nobody is behind them. They let you try TrulyFlirt safely and will never appear in the production service.
How are matches suggested?
Only from preferences you state: both people's gender preferences and age ranges must match, you must be within each other's search area (city, region or country), and shared interests and compatible relationship goals raise the score. We never guess anyone's traits.
Why are there no photos?
This version uses generated initials instead of photos. Photos need careful moderation, and we will only add them once that is in place.
How do I block or report someone?
In ChatGPT, ask TrulyFlirt to block or report the member by name. Reporting also blocks them straight away. You can also email support@trulyflirt.com.
How do I delete my account?
Go to https://trulyflirt.com/account and choose to delete your account, or ask TrulyFlirt in ChatGPT to delete your account. Deletion is immediate and permanent: your profile, likes, matches, messages and sign-in account are removed.
How do I disconnect ChatGPT?
Remove TrulyFlirt in ChatGPT's plugin settings. That stops ChatGPT from using your TrulyFlirt account but does not delete it. Delete your account separately if you want your data removed.
Is TrulyFlirt free?
Yes. There are no purchases or subscriptions.
How do I contact you?
Email support@trulyflirt.com for help, privacy@trulyflirt.com for privacy requests and grievance@trulyflirt.com for grievances.